Red Flag in Relationship

As i always concentrate on this topic through out my blog i think this is one of the important part of relationship. Life is pretty good if we all follow certain rules, terms and condition. Like wise we have to identify the changing behavior, conditions around us, emotional changes of partner of family member and thinking about the our family or society. Its not that difficult to understand and find out. We just need to observe it very keenly. All this changes are know as Red flag when they are harmful and dangerous to our relationship, family and society. 

Let us discuss some red flag which we have to identify from our partner/Boy friend/Girl friend in day to day behavior.

• When your partner is hiding his phone details like phone password, lock pattern etc. Its big red flag because that mean he/she is hiding the things which is existed inside the phone which may be chat, call records etc.

• When your partner not showing interest in talking to you on family matters, children problems, day to expenses etc. In short he is avoiding you and not discussing our day to day things. Means no single communication with you.

• While talking with you he or she surfing mobile and pretend to show you that talking and listening you but actually involve in deep mobile conversation. Here one thing i want to notice you that sometime your partner might talking to his/her close friend but i think everyone know how our partner behave and even know how our partner hiding the things while talking to you.

• When you doubt on your partner, your partner avoiding eye to eye contact with you. Not giving you confident and clear answer on your question. Its big red flag. As i mentioned above everyone know our partner better so we have to calculate this thing.

• Sudden changes in your partner habit like No interest to do sex with you, no cuddling while sleeping beside you, zero discussion about his/her office activities, colleagues. No inquiry about our own children, family members. 

• Too much active on social sites, every time talking about his/her specific friends, comparing his/her friend with you. etc

• Your partner not texting you back but always on the phone.

• When you are only person who apologize to end the fight.

• Your partner get panic when you are planning for outing with your friends or family. In short he/she conservative in nature and too much possessive.

• Your partner get angry when you are discussing his/her mistakes. Even he/she only focusing on your mistakes and keep only telling all your year back mistakes whenever argument are happened in between both of you.

• When your partner not showing interest the things which is important to you. Every now and then start drinking on each and every issue or problem. Again is very dangerous red flag.

• Dual personality means for world they are different like behaving so politely outside house/room but once come inside bedroom start dominating you and your feelings. I saw there are so many cases like that and trust me this kinda personality is very much dangerous to society as well.

All of the above are main red flag and you can easily identify within your partner/bf/gf. World is now a days become closer to social media only we need to understand how to use social media for our goodness and well being. We have to concentrate and learn ourself first by deciding what is priority in our life. I agree being social is good but everyone need to understand that family come first then rest of the things. Some small issues will create big problem if you are not concentrate them on initial stage. For above red flag both partner our sometime responsible as sometime we are too much busy with our personal and professional issues that we are not able to concentrate on our partner emotions, feelings towards us. That leads to depressing and frustration among them. And this is the another reason they are start following different path though that is dangerous to their own life.

See in short things happening around us is due to some reason. You all have to draw the line in between us what is correct and wrong. We have to clear about our goals and responsibilities towards professional and person line. Daily communicate with our partner make our life easy as transparency is their in between relationship. We are happy when our mind and heart is cool and happy within inside. For that we have to balance our family and partner. We need to carry our duties honestly towards our partner and family. Trust me then you are the happiest person on the earth. Please avoid some person, people around you who are ready to take advantage of your weak relationship as at first you feel good but its big big dark tunnel once you go deep inside and you will never come back again. So just be honest and be transparent with your partner. Thank you and see you. Be happy and stay bless.