Why some relationship discontinued after 3-4 years? Reasons and solutions

As i discussed a lot about the relationship a lot in my all the earlier topic, here i will discuss why some relationship will discontinue after 3-4 years.

I will ask you guys one simple question, do you all like to same kind of food, lunch and dinner everyday? Answer is in bold NO... NEVER... Now you only give me the answer why pose, irritation or discontinuation will be happen after some time. If we all keep on doing the same thing throughout our life it will definitely affect our personal and professional life. Now we examine our factors affecting our personal life closely which make our life rather boring or you can call less interested, monotonous.


Reason behind the breakup or discontinuation of relationship

1. We all are doing same mistake what others do like celebrating special days like birthday, marriage anniversary, family functions and festivals the same way like the others do or which are traditionally going on. 
2. Within a 1 year we think that we know each other very well which actually not in real and always consider that my partner will like the things which i bring to her/him.
3. Ignore our basic things which create happiness among us like lovely hi with smile to our partner, one call during the day etc
4. As i always mentioned not giving proper space to our partner and sometime behaving like detective to know the things he or she is doing. Trust me this is the basic reason why relationship no go longer more than 2 years.
5. Act as a person that we know everything about our family.

Now i have mentioned above all the reason some of them i might not mentioned but you also know better than me because they are occurring in our day to day life. Question is that how to maintained our relationship balance and avoid such kinda situation. So lets try below.

Solutions or secrets how to avoid such situations.

1. Remember before marriage we both know less about each other though we love a lot, but once we got married with each other we are getting to know every small habit and sometime that irritated its more. Like sound of mouth while taking dinner, chewing habits etc. The way we are living at home and the color combination of our clothes its also affects a most. Dressing sense you know all how does it matter in today's world. Same apply to our home living style as well. 
2. Try to love your partner not his/her habits.
3. Try to avoid to know the things which you are not like about your partner or best way communicate in positive way and convince him/her why you are not like the habit of him/her. Else what happen more you going to know about partner more you getting frustrated so my advice is better just ignore it.
4. Don't give advice to your partner every now and then, no one around the world like the same since their childhood and that is universal truth.
5. Celebrate the days in your own unique style and try to do it in different way so your family and partner both will get surprise. If you are not great in that Mr. Google is there to help you.
6. Avoid means of social media, mobile phone while talking to your partner at bed time, tea time etc.
7. Last things value your relationship

I tried to provide the reason and solution in brief as i know most of us not like to read lengthy paragraphs. Hence i just want to mentioned again that please remember that maintaining relationship after marriage, love or friendship is not a video game its bonding of two or more than two person which affect you, me and whole society, Just the way machine, vehicles and other non living things need yearly or monthly maintenance the same way your relationships need it badly in form of care, interest, love and emotions and if you are not doing that then sorry mate you are no more in that. So value your relationship, care your partner and behave smartly throughout your life. Most important do not follow others and compare them because you are unique piece in the world so live your own way. Be happy and stay blessed.